tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post2326510011277443085..comments2013-09-07T14:36:32.395-05:00Comments on The Cold Cereal Chronicles: Lessons learned from my parents’ divorceJesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05176522505877941064noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post-40092316173001689332013-01-14T13:35:59.749-06:002013-01-14T13:35:59.749-06:00Divorce can really have a big impact on the life o...Divorce can really have a big impact on the life of kids. So parents should remain a role model to them with the limited time they have. And I agree with all the items on your list, especially #1. Even before the divorce is finalized, you should let your children understand what the situation is. Tell them that they have nothing to do with the problem, and they don’t have to worry about it. Otherwise, you would end up not only giving problems to yourself, but also to your children.Janay Stileshttp://wblawgroup.com/WebbBordson/Divorce_Attorney_Fresno_CA.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post-16464304620540947842012-09-24T11:00:31.616-05:002012-09-24T11:00:31.616-05:00Even though divorce is hard to handle, at least yo...Even though divorce is hard to handle, at least you learned some lessons from your own and your parents’ divorce. Children can have a hard time dealing with the matter, so it would be good to let the kids understand what it is all about, what is happening, and what can still happen when the procedure ends. Parents should listen to what the children have to say, especially the concerns and feelings they have. Helping them understand can help them cope with the situation.Darcy Nimmonshttp://familylawjax.com/services/divorce-lawyers-in-jacksonville-fl/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post-50357982888652268532012-07-05T18:42:11.204-05:002012-07-05T18:42:11.204-05:00Sorry to hear about your ordeal. Divorce can be me...Sorry to hear about your ordeal. Divorce can be mentally and emotionally tough to handle. I like what you said about letting your children understand the situation. A divorce affects the whole family, so it is best to let the kids know what is happening and what might be the outcome of the situation to help them accept and understand whatever happens next.Guy Chamblisshttp://wittandassociates.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post-43131737349331263472010-12-29T01:33:55.937-06:002010-12-29T01:33:55.937-06:00Divorce between parents might have an adverse effe...Divorce between parents might have an adverse effect on the child's growth, but if the child's mind can understand the situation, the problem won't be huge. When I divorced my ex-husband with the help of the <a href="http://www.greenpoorelaw.com/divorce-lawyers-jacksonville-fl" rel="nofollow">divorce lawyers (Jacksonville, FL</a> located lawyers) the whole process is smooth.<br /><br />With my ex-husband giving child support to my kids, with all thanks to the <a href="http://www.greenpoorelaw.com/family-law-jacksonville-florida" rel="nofollow">family law (Jacksonville, FL)</a>, the financial troubles are little to none.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01284818988867427454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post-10631954774013765112009-01-05T04:56:00.000-06:002009-01-05T04:56:00.000-06:00I agree also that my parents divorce might have be...I agree also that my parents divorce might have been a negative experience but I turned it into a positive experience and when I went through my divorce my mommy was the one that coached me through mine (God rest her soul. It made me understand my mother and why she never remarried after 30-35 years of marriage to my father. I believe that she learned to enjoy the single life and realized that she was a stronger woman just taking care of her children and home. I have ways just like my mother I don't fee that I have to have a huband. I am a very strong woman ,Mother,sister,friend, counselor, confidiant really it feels like superwoman. I am because of my mother her mother and her mother were very strong women they didn't allow whether their husbands decided to stay or move on to dictate to their lives. And for that I am grateful because I see my daughter is just as strong. Everything meant for a negative affect on you is not always my divorce has become a positive in my life and I am greatful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9139128978604854580.post-27562731956038520772008-07-05T21:59:00.000-05:002008-07-05T21:59:00.000-05:00I'm totally with you in feeling that my parents' d...I'm totally with you in feeling that my parents' divorce was actually better for me and my siblings than them trying to stay together "for the kids' sake" when they were miserable. My parents divorced when I was 8 and while those first two years were rough, especially once my mom started dating my stepdad and got married to him when I was 10, our lives turned out so much better, and we ended up with two FABULOUS models of marriage to learn from. My parents weren't perfect in how they handled themselves post-divorce, but they did a respectable job and we turned out pretty darn well, if I do say so myself. <BR/><BR/>Great post - thanks for sharing!Super Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04943470340938118670noreply@blogger.com